January 13th, 2017
Last night we continued our program for the integration of and help for the refugees, with the working group meeting for the first time. The group, with a few other interested people, are looking at meeting and listening to the refugees at the end of the month. We shall see where to go from there, when we have heard their stories. It was good to work with this group – apart from myself, there are Ruben and Mary, Brazilian missionaries with a vision for refugee work who are leading the church in this integration process, Maddalena who is a social worker, and Cassia. We have been trying to get her involved in the life of the church for some time, and it is good to see her finally mobilised in a ministry. As she said herself at the end of the meeting, “I enjoyed this time together. I was missing being useful to others”.
On Saturday afternoon there will be a training meeting for the Sunday School teachers. Pinuccia is organising it, but it will be run by Enrica and Daniela, two members of the church who work in the area of training and coaching. The meeting will not be so much on how to teach the children, but how can we serve and work together better. There have been some difficulties recently in the relationships between the teachers, so we hope to improve this.
December 15th, 2016
The most notable feature of the meeting last night about the refugees was that there were not any refugees present. This was despite personally encouraging them to come and getting some positive responses as well. So we learnt a few lessons about cultural differences and reflected on them, for example meetings at 9pm might be best for the Italians, but not for the refugees, and that it is hard for them to say “no” to an invitation. But the meeting was positive anyway, with a consensus on some ideas to try. The meeting was too large to work on the details (that was a great thing!), but formed a group to start talking with the refugees (at a time that is convenient for them) and to create a concrete proposal that everybody will be happy with. Making a committee is not always a good outcome from a meeting, but I think it is the best way forward. Ruben, the missionary who specialises in refugees ministry, will be leading the group, and I am looking forward to being part of it as well, at least until there are enough other people of the church to keep it going.
Less than two days now until we leave for Australia – time to start doing some packing.
December 15th, 2016
A couple of things to pray for this week:
- On Wednesday evening there will be a meeting on the ministry to and of the refugees. This meeting is for the whole church, hopefully with the refugees attending as well. It should be a concluding meeting, wrapping up the reflections and discussions of the last couple of months. And if it goes well, also an introductory meeting, if the church decides to do something and not just talk. Pray for Ruben as he leads the meeting, and that we will be led by the Spirit in all we say and do.
- On Saturday we will be flying to Australia, for a 3 week trip to stay with the family. The plane trips will be interesting with all the children – Stefania and Daniele should be fine with the personal TV screens (although Daniele does not eat airplane food), but we don’t know if Luca and Mattia will be able to sit in one place for so many hours. So you could pray for the travel and for the time with the family.
June 20th, 2016
Each year, the church children’s camp is a bit different from other years, and this time it turned out that the main benefit was the time that the children spent with each other. This was in part due to the theme (sport and especially the Olympics), which meant more physical activities and less reflection, but it was also due to how the children are now. Certainly what our children were looking forward to most in the week leading up to the camp was seeing their best friends in the church for three days in a row. So the boys spent a lot of time on the football field, and the girls camped out in their bedroom, and I was happy to see that happen. There were also some children outside of the “groups”, due to differences in age or culture or personality, and although they did get a little bit better known, there is still a lot to do there.
June 13th, 2016
On Thursday, the three day children’s camp of the church will be beginning. There will be 12 children, including two friends of church children, and that is more than we were hoping for. All of out family will be going, and it is good to be involved in this ministry together. But it will be interesting, as Pinuccia and I together will be overseeing all the camp, running about half the activities, pretending not to be the parents of Stefania and Daniele, and looking after Luca and Mattia, who will be the mascots for the first of maybe five times. So you could pray for the camp, for us as a family, for the work of the team of leaders and helpers, and especially for the children who will be present.
May 15th, 2016
This morning I taught my last lesson in the Sunday School for this school year. (There are still three Sundays to go, but the 2 other teachers of the class will look after those.) We were up to chapter 4 in James, and it turned out to be a good opportunity to think back at what we have done together over the last three years (or seven years in the case of one of the girls), and what we want them to remember as the whole class heads off to Youth Group and High School after the summer:
- Be thankful for what you have, not complaining about what others have
- Don’t be friends of the world – be in it and critical of it, evaluating what it teaches, as we have done discussing together films and music
- We draw near to God through repentance – mourning for our sin and purifying ourselves from it, not reading the Bible, praying and going to church which are the usual answers from church children
- Think about your future (as they all are, having to make big decisions now about schooling that will determine what work they will be able to do) with humility before God.
So it was a good way to wrap up our lessons together, although I will still be spending some time with them in the next couple of months, and then more in the years ahead as well.
May 2nd, 2016
Yesterday seemed to be Family Day in church. First there was the new Pakistan family with 6 children who came for the first time, and who immediately created some space problems for the Sunday School. (It is a good thing that they will be getting larger classrooms in a few months!) Then during the service there was the simultaneous presentation of three boys born in February and March. All three fathers are in the music group (which created its own problems with the rosters in those months), so they collectively dedicated and played a song to their sons. Then we could joyfully celebrate all these new children in our monthly lunch together as a church after the service. There was then also the annual meeting of the church, but that too was a joy to hear about God’s working in the church this year, and not just bureaucracy!
April 18th, 2016
Some more good news in the church. About 10 days ago one of the Pakistan refugees got his residency after about 5 years waiting. This meant that his family was finally allowed to come to Italy to join him. Thanks to the great generosity of one of the church members, the plane tickets was quickly arranged and bought, and yesterday morning his wife and five children arrived in Italy. I’m looking forward to meeting them all soon!
April 18th, 2016
A couple of weeks ago we found a hall up for auction after a bankruptcy. On Tuesday we won the auction with the lowest possible bid. So we are now the owners of a 345 square meter hall at less than half the market price, and less than any but the smallest apartments at Trento. And with a 20 year mortgage we will be paying a third less than what we pay to rent a hall half as big. We are thankful for this opportunity to have a much better place at a lower cost. We will be moving in a couple of months’ time.
April 18th, 2016
It is time to catch up on some news, now that I have a moment free.
We had a relatively good week at the ECM conference in Croatia. The time looking after the family took out a lot of time that usually we would have had to catch up and meet the other missionaries, but we were expecting that. It was interesting coming from our town, where I know of only one other family with four school age children, to a mission conference where four (or more children) is quite common. For the mission as a whole, it was a good time to reflect on where God is leading us into the future of Europe.